What bugs me about some manga and manhwa

I know that some girls like guys who are jerks, but don't know it. I'm use to that but afterward the usually girls dump the guy when they realized that even though he does have feelings for you he will never stop being a jerk. So in turn you have to let him go find someone he will let his guard down for . Not in the the manhwa and manga i have read , for some reason the girl decide that i accept him the way he is so it's alright. It's okay if he calls me names and hits me. I don't not find abuse cute, and yes it's abuse both physical and verbal. I just realized that they are developing their characters from children. The little boy likes the little girl and pushes her down because he likes her and does not know how else to get her attention. The problem is they never grow up from there, after that they stay the same in the relationship. He pushes the girl and put her down talk to her like she is nothing. Why is the guy still treating the girl like crap when she is treating him like he is her everything. What really bugs me is the parents and or friends tell her that is his way and to just accept it. Also when the girl wants a change she is hurting him and all the girls friends and family tell her she is an awful girlfriend i find it ludicrous.








I have more to say but that is all for today just had to get that off my chest.